In May of 2024, my life took a turn. I made the choice to devote every single bit of my energy into growing the two social platforms that would help me grow as a business.

It’s me, hi, I’m the problem, it’s me. Every single person on this planet has insecurities, or things they do not like about themselves. Are my insecurities a reflection of me or something greater?

Find your squad. Find your cheerleaders. Find someone that you can call and they will listen. This idea is brilliant. Saw a video that talked about gathering those around you that support you when you need it.

Don’t Blink. It’s 2024. Do you look to the future? Do you contemplate the past? Are you ready? Will you make it your year? Will you try something new? Adventure somewhere far? Get married? Get Divorced? Have a kid? What’s in store for 2024?

Have you ever googled yourself? If you haven’t you really should. Rechecking the security settings on facebook, led me down a rabbit hole of memory and contemplating the benefits and downsides of a digital life.

It’s possible to love and hate a holiday, right? I’ve never been a fan of the day after Thanksgiving aka Black Friday. What do you do? Are you an early riser or an online shopper? Are you like me and ignore it?

It’s a random day, you get the mail and as you begin to sort through the endless junk mail…there it is…Jury Summons. The heart feels like it’s dropped to your gut and you quickly open to figure out which week has to be dipped in chaos. Lots of words run through your mind. The first thought, how can I get out of it?

There have been moments in my life that have occurred when I questioned everything, when a different choice would have changed my future and existence. Is it fate, coincidence, or luck? You tell me.

I used to think of failure as a negative thing. Now it’s a part of my growth. I try and learn from it. Previously, I would go dark, critical, and become that OVER analyzing everything I did — person. I still become my own private drill sergeant and critic, but I try not to be too hard. It’s not easy and negative Nellie and I could go rounds.